Signs
What does it take to believe? That question is what Dimple and Jeff explore as we dive into Season 3, Episode 5 – Signs.
This week pulls together all the major themes of positive psychology–topics like self-limiting beliefs, the inner critic, the question of do I matter, intrinsic vs. extrinsic motivation, and validation, and most importantly, growth mindset. As Dimple and Jeff dive deeper into these areas they look at what it means to operate from above and below the line and about not being tied to outcomes and the power of “yet.” On the leadership front they talk about what it takes to provide meaningful feedback and why the compliment sandwich is the worst mistake a leader can make.
In This Episode
- [06:48] Operating above and below the lines
- [07:50] Healthy masculine and feminine and why it’s important not to attach yourself to the wins
- [09:58] The power of yet versus the tyranny of now
- [13:05] Using positive emotions for a growth mindset
- [17:31] “Believe” as two ends of a continuum
- [22:50] The role of mindset for clearing out the internal noise
- [37:00] Respect and psychological safety as a leader
- [39:23] The importance of on-going feedback
- [49:18] External validation
- [101:20] Self-soothing through anxiety and panic attacks
- [107:26] How self-limiting beliefs get in the way of “believe”
- [01:08:52] Brené Brown and being worthy of love and belonging
- [01:11:20] Biggest takeaways from the episode
Resources & Links
- Mentioned
- Why “Above the Line” Thinking is Central to Creativity and Connection (And How to Cultivate It) - https://medium.com/@dimpledhabalia/why-above-the-line-thinking-is-central-to-creativity-and-connection-and-how-to-cultivate-it-1cb319504a06
- Above or Below the Line - https://conscious.is/video/locating-yourself-a-key-to-conscious-leadership
- Neuroplasticity - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/neuroplasticity
- Carol Dweck - The Power of Believing That You Can Improve - https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_X0mgOOSpLU&feature=youtu.be
- Mihaly Czikszentmihalyi - Flow, the secret to happiness - https://www.ted.com/talks/mihaly_csikszentmihalyi_flow_the_secret_to_happiness
- The Sandwich Approach Undermines Your Feedback - https://hbr.org/2013/04/the-sandwich-approach-undermin
- The Message - https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Message_(Grandmaster_Flash_and_the_Furious_Five_song)#:~:text=The%20song's%20lyrics%20describe%20the,commits%20suicide%20in%20his%20cell.
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- Why Radically Human Leadership Is More Important Than Ever https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/blog/why-radically-human-leadership-is-more-important-than-ever
- 4 Steps to Creating A Human-Centered Organization
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